In my opinion Family Law represents the litmus test of the setting of the relationship between the law and the "legal culture" of a People. Furthermore this is the field where the delta between the combinations of the law in the books with the law in action is wider. With this paper I intend to demonstrate, how the cultural, social and political-economic evolution of a given society (in particular the contemporary Italian society and more generally the European societies) accentuates the disconnection with "positive law" and how "family law", despite having "universal" aspects, is so intimately linked to society so that it represents the fulcrum of legal culture reflecting the ideas, the traditions, the religions the cultural and political...